Spring Constellation Circle: Your Nest

At the March Constellation Circle, a new process emerged: I invited participants to build a “nest” representing their current state. We collected pillows, scarves, and other objects, and wandered the beautiful space of the Hidden Temple to find our place. Then we built up a small area representing our current situation.

Once the nests were built, we gathered in the center. When a person felt ready, we accompanied them to their nest, learned about their desires and challenges, and then set up a constellation to discover what was blocking the movement they were seeking.

Constellation work is a deep and intimate dance. We open ourselves to be moved by the longings and messages of each person’s Field. In each case, hidden loyalties and unspoken wounds were seen and acknowledged. The energies were given a place to move and transmute into a healing resource. This is the gift of this work - to free an unproductive pattern into its true expression: a wellspring of Love that waters the flourishing of your life.

One of the themes that emerged was around guilt.

Guilt, as Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation discovered, is not a response to a moral or ethical violation. Rather, guilt is very precise: guilt is the sensation we experience when we are at the edge of the norms of our current system of belonging, such as our family or social circle. We know this because people can do unethical or immoral things and still feel innocent if their behaviors are culturally normative; at the same time, ethical and compassionate choices can generate guilt if they violate their system’s rules. Guilt, then, is simply the indicator that you are moving beyond your group’s norms.

People who are stepping into leadership can experience guilt. People who are moving into their next stage of personal evolution may experience guilt. When we are in our right relationship to guilt, it feels a lot like courage. But at times, we can feel immobilized when we reach our growth edge. Why? Because the experience of guilt is entangled with our ancestral trauma.

If you have been struggling to step fully into your own next evolution, you are invited to join the Spring Constellation Circle with Aitabé.

April 12, 11am - 5pm
The Hidden Temple
221 Pine Street, Suite 320, Florence MA 01062

Client Seats: $40 deposit/ $110 balance due Apr 12
Representative Seats: $40

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